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Moving: Living In The Space Between

June 5, 2014

Last week the movers packed up the container

and took everything we own to the dock to be shipped out tomorrow

I admit I was a bit misty-eyed as the truck’s doors were locked and secured

with homemade artwork and favorite acquired treasures inside

So many memories packed into one container!


the shipment is due to arrive the US port on the 4th of July

In advance

we had to power wash our bikes to remove all dirt

and rid of items that were raw, untreated wood

in order to pass successfully through US Customs

We are hoping for a speedy customs clearance

so we can get our lives unpacked and settled in quickly

With our furniture gone,

we are living like university students once more

Using moving boxes as night stands

Two twin beds pushed together

Interior design magazines for ideas in our future home

For a few more weeks we’ll rent furniture

– 3 beds, 1 sofa, 1 table with chairs –

We sold all electrical items with UK plugs,
got rid of our light bulbs,

purged liquids

(incl nail polish remover, cleaning supplies, liquid medicines),

and soon our cupboards will be bare

We’ll do some creative cooking with the few ingredients we do have on hand

It has been a monumental clean out

performed previously just 4 years ago

It is exhausting but then somewhat liberating


For our last days in England
we will sleep in a hotel, and the pets will be in boarding

The house gets a required 3-day professional cleaning

before an inspector comes through with her check-list

(always a daunting day when she comes through)

Feels so strange…

Cheese in the frig will expire after I leave

Fliers announce events I cannot attend

Leaves grow on trees that I won’t see fall this autumn

I will miss my beloved toadstool and conker season

Guy Fawkes Night too

Oddly, my calendar is empty from the next month on

Once we return to the US

we will attend events we aren’t even aware of yet
and we’ll fill the refrigerator with food once more

Thanksgiving will be celebrated traditionally once again

It’s hard to stay in the moment

when the moment feels so unstable

– I’m neither here nor there –

missing my friends and my life here already
while excited to be reunited with friends & family back home
and set up our new life

This is the space between

What next? Returning Home

Life as an expat: so many doors

Behind The Door

– Since we moved here, I have felt that life is filled with mystery doors Not until the time is right do you get to see what’s on the other side of the door – – For a few months now, we have been…

May 1, 2014
Mailboxes a symbol of America

You Know You’re In America When…

– …you see – mailboxes with little flags American robins yellow school buses light switch on the lamp, not the cord washer & dryer that can do a week’s worth of clothes in two loads free drink refills a proper glass of iced tea…

April 28, 2014
Thanksgiving Hedgerows UK

Thanksgiving’s Hedgerows

As America celebrates Thanksgiving tomorrow – a day of loved ones, traditional food, and American football – my family and I will celebrate our fourth year in a nation that doesn’t pause for the holiday – We have a new normal with new traditions,…

November 27, 2013
Raising Second Generation Expats

Raising Second Generation Expats

Ever wonder what it would be like to live abroad with your family?  – In my last post  I interviewed four American expat moms who described what it was really like  to live in a foreign country when they were kids – – the good…

April 6, 2013
Reflecting on an expat upbringing

Reflecting On An Expat Upbringing

Due to an overwhelming response on my post ’Where Are You From?’, I decided to write a follow-up from a different angle – Handmade by Jane Foster – Wondering how my children may reflect upon living abroad, I posed questions to four American expat…

April 3, 2013
An Expat Life

A Tricky Question: Where Are You From?

I learned early on that asking an expat ‘Where are you from?’ can be a loaded question – Does it mean Where were you born? Where did you last live? Which country do you identify with most? – Vintage luggage via Faye Travis Vintage…

February 21, 2013
Driving On The Left

Driving On The Left

 Reflecting on passing my driving test 2 years ago, I now find myself to be an ‘ambidextrous driver’ – Which means, when I look at a road with no markings I could pull into either lane, as they both feel right (!) – –…

February 6, 2013
Interview With Expats Blog

Interview By Expats Blog

 Recently, I was approached by Expats Blog for an interview I figured, why not? – – I try to find the right balance of what to share personally online, and I’ve revealed a little more about me in this interview with Expats Blog – I hope…

January 31, 2013